LIFEOLOGY

life….
Donot know wat to pen down……..but I surely know wat not to…..dats sumthing similar with life………..u know wat u don’t want but have no idea abt wat u want….hmmm……..sum things are too clear to be true……for me its Strange……life has been full of moments….wherein sometimes I end up wid ma actions followed by constant hammering of "why da hell did I do it" Kind of thoughts……and sometimes u think and reason ur intentions so much that u end up not doin wat u initially thought of…….so wat should we do…life is travelled once…..todays moments becomes tommorrow’s memory…..how to make our present beautiful…..when I look around I find people who are not happy with their life…..some complain …..some curse…some deny….but its quite evident that they aren’t happy………or contented …..we all feel that we need to be satisfied with our own lot…….but fail to realize that satisfaction should be the result and not an intended and cultivated feeling…..when I look back at my years of being alive……I recollect that meeting new people…….there is an excitement in knowing them…….initial curiousity,amusement and as they open up,we know more …..and suddenly everything dies down……u need to keep the initial zing on……its not abt love relationship am talking abt ,its true with our friends & family……….everybody…….too much of knowledge ends up to judgemental sessions followed by instigating advices, constant “ u should change this” kinda lectures…and then finally u get bugged …….coz u fail to accept people as they are…….this is the most annoying part……Life is just an act of balancing………u need to calm down when ur loved ones loses temper……Change is appreciated where it is needed…..

Regret is a word which no one should have in his life……coz……everything has something good in it……but alas……we al regret our moves ……coz we feel that “ WE DID IT”……..its never the case, "U always have a force behind you who drives u to act and behave in a particular manner "…….when faced with choices we all are worried wat to do…….we should realize that human nature is such that watevr we choose we will always regret of not choosing the other choice……and the simple reason being that we are not aware of the consequences of the forgone option……
To analyse life /future/present is like post mortem being conducted whn u r still alive……how does that feel……we sometimes reason the bad good ugly part so much dat we fail to do wat we want……or listen to our inner voice…..
At each stage we should have an excitement in life …….it can be anything……when we get up in the morning we should look up to something…..we should fill our life with moments of life……bein alive is different from existing……we all exist but only some of us LIVE…..
U need to list down wat makes you happy and strive to do that just to make ur self more at peace….most of us discuss abt others……analyse advise and argue abt others behavior nature…..but fail to recognize their own…. True self…..

Herein where I say strive to get wat u want I meant achievement of joy and contentment….if we have to say lies for the same I don’t think its wrong coz…..moments will pass away taking away the oppo which had come your way …and instead of losing it ……it is much better to experience it …..sometimes even at the cost of suffering the moment rather than enjoying it…….Just remember that we should always mean well and do well …..rest all is destined to happen and will certainly happen!