SOME THINGS JUST DON’T CHANGE>……

Contradictory to my earlier post on changing times………Just wanna jot down certain things that I feel just don’t change over time.

Moms cribbing about their daughters and bragging about their Sons…

Grandparents constantly nagging and comparing each and every day instance with what used to happen at their times.

Exaggerated Dialogues from native relatives on seeing “ HOW BIG HAVE YOU BECOME”…(Psst.. I wonder whther they were told that I was suffering from Dwarfism or what?)


28+ umarried guys being questioned –“Toh kab hain Shaadi, koi ladki wadki dekh rakhi hain ??”At the same time 28+ girls first got to face a head to toe inspection by incusitive people to determine the marital status and then pops up the statement
Shaadi karni hai ki nai!!!! (dats what I call as INEQUALITY)

Salary remains insufficient whatever be your designation, raise, and grade.

How much ever you swear and boast about your childhood friendships…u eventually end up being estranged friends..


All the extremely Practical, sensible and intelligent people lose their so mentioned attributes , and become as blind and deaf as they could possibly imagine then and now…WHEN they are in love;-)


Reasoning Questioning and curiosity needs to follow from elders to youngsters then and now…The reverse flow was , is and will be a contempt in every sense.

The list surely goes on…..

Laugh- Just "EXPRESS AMUSEMENT”

In life there are many such moments that make u laugh ,laugh and laugh till your stomach starts hurting , your eyes starts watering ….I feel those are the moments when you really feel Alive…All of us do have our shares of such infectious laughers…

Some of these instances can still make you laugh when u recollect the same…Whenever you feel doomed by life’s realities and bolted by certain unfortunate happenings its my sincere request to all of you just try to relive those moments.

You all must have come across the statement “when life gives you a hundred reasons to cry show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.” Somewhat on those lines…..If there is a hurt somewhere just try to plaster it up with some light moments which you were fortunate enough to experience..coz u can never Eradicate Hurt / sorrow with laughter , all you can do is just replace the moments for the time being. But sincerely it works a great deal…Seeing humour in your worst troubles or may be fatal life destructing happenings is the only way to sail through if at all u wish to sail through….Being a human,its rarely possible….

Coz unknowingly and effortlessly we compare, expect, worry, question every thing that surrounds us..but rarely do we express our amusement...WHY so?
Laughing at oneself is not that difficult…

I have screwed up ma life n number of times and just feel like mocking back at myself… I genuinely feel like giving one whack on my head and saying WHAT an idiot I AM!!”

More than being a punctual person am a out of control freaking minute to minute tracking machine when it comes to meeting my friends , I keep calling again and again to ensure that whether they are going to make it on time (I am always more worried about their mode of transport rather than mine) This kind of nagging treatment are only given to a chosen few although…there was an instance where I (pre occupied by a lot of apprehensions and self indulging thoughts) got into a down train when I had promised to meet them at CST and didn’t even realize the train was moving in the exact opposite direction.. My friends waited for an hour to finally hear from me that I had reached my home station!!

I really didn’t have the courage to tell them that RUKKO mein aati hun!!! I just consoled myself that i am as directionless in my present as I am with my future!! WAT ELSE;-)


Congratulating one of ma collegue on getting engaged by merely correlating two things one his mail inviting me for chocolates and second over hearing his conversation regarding his GF parents’s Green signal…I didn’t even bother to ask or clarify….Just shook hands and said CONGRAGULATIONS… (by god’s grace I didn’t ask about his wedding date based upon my presumptive story)

For all those wondering why he sent a mail, it was his birthday….To avoid me from public embarrassment (dats wat I like to believe) he called up later to clarify that he was not yet engaged!! WHAT DID I DO??? Said Sorry repeatedly till I could…

This is something very common occurrence wherein we anticipate or are badly expecting a call and when the phone rings you come rushing to pick it up , u topple, stumble hurt yourself , your heart has already raced the time ahead, u flash your widest smile or A “maine kahan tha naa call aayega” look….And what happens need not be explained…

Another friend of mine always faces a problem of taking the phrase “BE URSELF” too seriosusly….come what may she behaves her true self with one and all and some times or rather always repents the same , swearing to be a bit more conscious the next time.. But she is a perfect example of living a life to bring smiles on others faces and believe me that’s the most enduring way of living!!!!

It’s good to pretend that everything’s alright. Because when everybody else thinks you’re fine, sometimes you forget for a while that you’re not.

Just ending the above saga with somebody’s lines…

WHEN you are insulted LAUGH at it

WHEN you cant LAUGH at it, smile at it,

WHEN you cant Smile at it , IGNORE it

WHEN you cant IGNORE it…..

THEN I think

YOU DESERVE IT!!!

Now You decide whether it is better to live with the thought that u deserved an insult, hurt or rather shoo it away with a Laughter …..

Changing Times……Good or bad?

Ms Word (messed up words)

Recently I was doing ma routine work at my desk, I received a call from my team mate enquiring about how to spell a particular word. within a sec I opened a word doc and typed out half of the word and then pressed enter.. later I realized how foolish I have been , even she must have done the same on getting a spell check error would have called……..I tried to recollect but somewhere felt handicapped!!

Some thing just struck me ……all day long we are so much into typing texting , we really have become lame in someway or the other….we really don’t feel the need to know the write spellings, its like u feed a mobile number in your cell and don’t need to memorise the same. We have feeded the thought that our mistakes would be rectified by the PC…Don’t know GOOD or BAD

Mobile mishap

The first time and the last time my dad read one of my inbox message;-) He couldn’t understand the meaning of words like Bck hme , Gr8 tyme...thnx ...cya!!! He was confused. A person entering Chat world, would really go mad at the pitiable choice n use of words.
The actual use of these words comes to save your money per message but however now even though sending messages are almost free, still we have just stuck in world of no use of Vowels
A E I O U…….
Gone are the days when we needed You

Behind the scene Heroism

Technology has always been very handy and helpful but you find a lot many people around, who write superb mails, one liners or funny witty replies but when they come face to face u really wonder or rather doubt his /her ability. They communicate well when they need not face anyone.

Causal use of words

Words like dear, love you, sweetheart etc are so commonly used that it really loses its meaning or rather its essence. If u know the meaning of these words, then its usage would never be done in such abundance to one and all!!!

I know him/her

How do I know a person??? I must have met or spoken?? How would u define knowing someone……This phrase is also loosing its meaning. We usually end up saying this in cases wherein we are just aware of the other person’s existence!!! Funny isn’t it??




Boasting Honestly

I remember, earlier when we used to not know an answer there was a kind of shame or apologetic look on our face. But nowadays we are so much into the honesty mode…NAhi aata toh NAhhi aata…Sochne ka prayaas kyu kare Humein NAhi aata….The last time I was Bombarded when I had this attitude when I was showing how honest when I said I didn’t know that, this or anything…Honesty surely Pays but sometimes u have to pay heavily for it!!