AmarPrem (Literally;-))

Off late whenever I find ma guy friends bonding well with each other, or rather supporting each other , there is a very obvious and well supported teasing which naturally starts and now it doesn’t seem weird at all..Changing times, changing minds, changing preference, wonder what all will change heheh…

Thanx to Kal ho na ho…rather the famous kantaben who made A “hole” lot of difference in the mindsets…Far stretched out of box thinking..
Way back a guy talking to a girl seemed a bit awkward and people refrained to talk to oppo sex when in public….but now I guess u prefer to be known as friendly with girls,…Ders a need to be known as STRAIGHT.Sec 377 did allow certain welcomed and long awaited acceptance yet it did create an environment wherein the straight ensure that they are recognized as straight in all respects ;-)

In jovial meets among ma friend groups we do end up pairing guys wid guys...and there are some who are more than welcoming to such mockLove session...and the level to which they stoop really leaves ur jaws dropped…( Reference to the eternal “Preet” story wid Deep feelings especially on SUN and SAT ..LOL samjhdar ko ishara kaafi hain;-)) U actually go on and on..embarassing and awkwardness doesn’t seem to be much in place and moreover during such hilarious teasing riot, the expressions of the onlookers who seem to be well informed about the Sec 377 developments seems to be a treat to watch and then roll in ur laughter ..The whole things seem to be infectious & hilarious! Guys now wanna be sure they are linked with girls and girls now just pray ladka accha ho ya bura..bus who ladka ho yehi kaafi hain…..
Nevertheless, we have always learned Knowledge is always a boon….But sumtimes Ignorance is a Bliss!!!

Serious Comedy;-)

Early morning, in ma hurry to go to office with utmost interest( totally sarcastic) I was literally dragging ma self from Bed to sofa to Tv remote to Bathroom…slowly n steadily I did get dressed up and was packing the most important component of ma bag the “Tiffin”..Ma dad n Mom were murmuring sumthings which I could vaguely hear…as usual I have the habit of poking ma nose when it needn’t be…ma dad just churned out intelligently dat it was abt me…I refrained coz now issues regardg me has to be predominantly abt my Wedding…

But Baap kiska hain..he just again went on and on regarding how I should change ma preference n be adjusting n blah blah blah……In a spur of moment, I emotionally said…kya karu dad , jisko dilo jaan se pasand kiya usne jaa kar shaadi karli…abb mai kya karu….
And that expression on ma dad’s face is beyond words!! He was startled, stunned ,shocked & frozen all in all , just a Kodak moment;-) He, may be for a moment, but believed me ;-) heheh… ….It was rolling on the floor laughter for ma momsi Coz MAA sab jaanti hain..and the guy I was talking abt was none other than ABHISHEK BACHCHAN!!!

Real estate boom, new constructions and residency homes coming up in fastening speeding & heighten rates is really a well evident change in our lifestyles.
There were times wherein we freely roamed around each other places without bothering. The doors of ur neighbours were seldom closed. During the powercut, it was a joyful time wherein all the aunties would sit in common passage discuss stories and we kids used to play with each other.screaming running jumping. Most of the times u never knew where u kids are bein feeded.I still feel tempted when I recollect having the delicacies which are next door neighbor used to prepare and she still treasures the memory of me barging into their houses innoncetly following ma nose.

Way back I too remember, having a stupid fite wid ma mom and then sacrificing ma lunch( random reason- TO teach momsi a lesson) She being ma mom knew that for nothing on this earth would I remain Hungry …and lavishly had ma lunch at ma neighbour’s place.. Back in time, children had no option but to play outdoor games and too wid diverse mates…now even children have their own choices of friends, Strange as it sounds;-) We have various classes for extra circular activities not to enrich the kids but to plainly occupy them wid some activity! I guess its slowly trying and following the western culture…Therz a strange coldness that shrugs u nowadays..
Now, we have houses with CCTV kinda cameras, coz the eyehole isn’t enough of a security, We have lifts coz the floors have increased, and climbing the stairs is Very irritating! U hardly know ur next door neighbor coz interacting is always a bit hestitatg. I wonder why? Wat has changed? is this the coldness of the new generation, the Well hyped privacy among the youngsters or Rather I would put it simple terms..Wats the need to talk to them!! We are self sufficient, all kinda help is a phone call away, we don’t basically require the Botherhood whats not needed is not maintained…

So u basically find cluster of people staying together but rarely being together;-)

Bandh Bandh ….matlab ??? Sab KAAM bandh;-)

Euphoria about July 5th bein a nationwide Bandh just caught everyone’s attention….One day where we evidently cant work….Cant come out of our houses….Even though we predominantly like never before show our willingness to make it to work……..”I would have if I could” it really tickles ma funny bone….

How Outrageous !! Is nt this a pathetic replica of our non co-operation movements which were glorified back in our history books….Herein by voicing a protest and announcing a bandh….wat exactly Do we achieve?

Let me See…..hmmm…….
A compulsory unpaid leave…
An involuntary but welcomed long weekend..
All family members irrespective of their designations, place of working, shifts of working are at home…So GALA time!!
Total rest…need not go out to shop also for petty thins, as shops are closed…
Business people lose a day of revenue….Time & money wasted! “money” not earned is waste , rite!!

We are practically voicing against price rise….and declare a total Bandh! And thus foolishly lose a day’s revenue…..and still pay a high price coz nothing changes!!
Some people like us the middle class, secure job ,lazy couch workers , Do sit back and rest…….but the lower strata..who survive thru daily wages…Are severly Hit!! In every sense…So whom does this BAndh Benefit!!
Some political parties who just wanna raise “aam aadmi ka mudda!.”...bhale hi aadmi gaya khadde mein, buses were attacked , rails were blocked….and a lot of commotion created to display Protest against the functioning of the nation….it had to be a Complete BANDH!!......
A completely involuntarily BANDh!
On the contrary, not raising a voice, or creating an unrest, and Showing discomfort against the fuel price hike would also send wrong signals of being indifferent…..Coz it does matters to pay as if u have to travel in a cruise and then end up travelling squeezed as a hen in a rick….Slowly all things are getting expensive….but declaring a bandh and hurting people irrespective of their reasons to venture out, seems nothing but insane!!

How can we amicably and peacefully voice our discomfort without logically losing out on our Revenue generation seems the question of the hour!!